Leave. I know u said u want to run into ur daddy's safe Arms. I wish I could but he passed away 3 years ago. At first he told me that I was a joke to my now husband. He was no good and he even cut me off for a while because I stayed with him. I ended up getting pregnant with my first child at 24 and he was 32. My dad started to come around then and realized he better help get me set up or I was gonna have a hard life. So he bought me a condo and my husband and I moved in. My dad was the best, he was verbally abusive but I always knew he loved me unconditionally. He always had my back and we had alit of fun together. However things got better between my dad and him over the years but then when my dad passed away 9 years into my husband and I s relationship, it's like his narc mask came off. He was accusing me of cheating and he would not hear me when I told him I wasn't. This shocked me because it was so wrong and the reasons he thought so were so theoretical. That's what he would do he would go somewhere a d then later claim that he knew I was messing with someone while he was gone. I'm shocked every time it happens but it's so hard to turn around and tell him to leave bc I didn't do anything to him and I want him to stay. Anyways once my dad died I saw another person one who acted like I was worthless. And on and on and on, I wished my dad were here so many times.